tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-70214032370123062932024-03-05T23:51:59.945-04:00The Adventures of Boy WonderJoin us on the Adventures of Boy Wonder, 8 years old, as he overcomes the challenges he faces due to Autism. The other characters in our cast include me, you can call me J, THE DIVA who is 5 and Sweet Baby Girl who is 4 years old. It's our version of Mr. Toad's Wild Ride. Fasten your seat belts.Boy Wonder's Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16438138519046486344noreply@blogger.comBlogger128125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7021403237012306293.post-87748954855975370452014-02-05T14:44:00.000-04:002014-02-05T14:54:21.178-04:00Invisible AgainIn October of 2010, I wrote about autism being the <a href="http://theadventuresofboywonder.blogspot.com/2010/10/invisible.html" target="_blank">invisible disability</a>. I wrote about how our children have no physical markers that signal to the world the way their brains are just wired differently. While autism awareness is more widespread today (since I wrote the original post the statistics for autism have shockingly gone from 1 in 110 to 1 in 50), the supports and services our children need are still hard fought for and sometimes denied. Services vary greatly from school district to school district and state to state. Some of us desperately need these supports for our children. It is the only way they can thrive and reach their full potential. Sometimes, it's the only way to keep them and other family members safe. We would like our children to be in the news for positive things. Not because they wandered away like <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2014/01/26/nyregion/an-outpouring-of-support-as-avonte-oquendo-is-laid-to-rest.html" target="_blank">Avonte Oquendo</a>, where the school personnel failed to keep him safe. Or the parents who murder their children because they see no other way out after being denied help and services time and time again. (<b><i>I absolutely do not condone murdering your child which is why there are no links to media stories.</i></b>) <br />
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So we as the parents are invisible until something horrific happens to one of our children. Then the media and the public pay attention. Then there is judgment, public outcries for justice and finger pointing. How much suffering and how many tragedies could be avoided if the people and system who are designed to help children like ours actually worked? What if, instead of judging us after the tragedy, you put your hand out and helped to prevent the tragedy. Society is reciprocal. At some point all of us will need help from one another. No one's life is free from difficulties.<br />
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If you are the friend of someone with a special needs child, you offering to watch the child for an hour, bringing a meal, calling with a funny joke or just being a shoulder to cry on could make a big difference. I am fortunate that I have a strong support system in place. Some friends with typical kids and a wonderful network of special needs moms and dads who will come if I call and say for today I can not face this alone. I, in turn, have the same offer on stand by for them as well.<br />
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The tragedies need to stop. They can be stopped with support, love and compassion. The autism rate has soared in the 6 years since Boy Wonder's diagnosis. Autism crosses every race, religion and socioeconomic barrier. It does not and will not discriminate. We could be you some day and we will be here for you.<br />
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<br />Boy Wonder's Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16438138519046486344noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7021403237012306293.post-58262765607936429142014-01-31T09:34:00.000-04:002014-01-31T09:34:33.460-04:00HiI always talk about how we waited for Boy Wonder to talk. Getting him to talk was difficult and mostly him just repeating back what was said to him. His progress over the last two years regarding speech has been phenomenal. The little boy we were told would never communicate can talk . Is it conversational? Well no but he can tell us what he wants. He can say hi to people. In fact, it's one of his favorite things to do.<br />
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<br />Boy Wonder's Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16438138519046486344noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7021403237012306293.post-81087391724589353042014-01-22T13:55:00.001-04:002014-01-22T13:55:27.036-04:00Snow Day Playlist (Where is Summer?)Yay There's No School (Xanax Time)<br />
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I always said that when I had children that I wanted them to be happy. I didn't care if they were trash collectors as long as they at the end of the day they could honestly say they were happy. By no means does this mean I do not or will not encourage them to reach their full potential. I will not, however, force them to do things just because they look good to other people. Forcing kids to do something because you feel it makes you look like a good parent, to me, is kind of the opposite of a good parent. I'm not talking about making them eat vegetables or go to sleep early, the daily nitty gritty of parenting. I am not talking about making a commitment and then walking away when they change their mind. I'm referring to letting a child find out who they really are without undue pressure to be daddy's football player or mommy's ballerina. Sometimes, a child's interest is very different than a parent's dream of what their child would be like when they were born. And sometimes you have a child who is not a child you ever imagined when you decided to become a parent.</div>
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6 years ago today, Boy Wonder was diagnosed with severe autism. It was devastating and life changing. I felt then, and sometimes still do, feel ill equipped and vastly under qualified to parent a child with a disability. But BW has taught me so much. He turned the world right side up. He made me more patient (mostly), far far less judgemental and he showed me that proving people wrong is really really fun. </div>
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Boy Wonder's Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16438138519046486344noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7021403237012306293.post-3658617647993063182013-08-20T14:47:00.000-04:002013-08-20T14:47:15.580-04:00Run, Run, and Run On<br />
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Yes I am running again this year with <a href="http://events.autismspeaks.org/faf/donorReg/donorPledge.asp?ievent=1055963&lis=1&kntae1055963=1299FD584410414593CBD86179025662&supId=377201028" target="_blank">Team Up with Autism Speaks</a> in the <a href="http://www.131marathon.com/boston/" target="_blank">Allstate Boston Half</a>. I've been asked when I'll stop running but I don't plan on stopping. Boy Wonder will always have autism. His sisters will always have a brother with autism. I don't run for a cure. We are long past the stage where I use words like cure or recovery. Boy Wonder has autism. He is profoundly needs life time care autistic.<br />
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I run because more children will be diagnosed this year with autism than with any other type of lifelong disability. When Boy Wonder was diagnosed 6 long/short, all mixed together years ago, the rate was 1 in 150. The rate now is closer to 1 in 50. I wonder what it will be if I/We don't do something now when Diva and Sweet Baby Girl are thinking about having children.<br />
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I run for the special educators who love our kids, for the services Boy Wonder will need when he ages out of the education system because the waiting lists for those services are endless, I run to know why my boy has autism so his sisters can make their choices with more knowledge than I did. I run for his sisters (and all the other siblings) who love their brother and know how to make him laugh and smile despite being only three and five years of age. <br />
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<i><b>Ed's Note: You can click the Team Up with Autism Speaks to donate or you can click the Allstate Boston Half to register to run. </b></i></div>
Boy Wonder's Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16438138519046486344noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7021403237012306293.post-74618559036670131282013-08-06T18:43:00.000-04:002013-08-06T18:47:07.090-04:00But for the Grace of GodWhen Boy Wonder was diagnosed with Classic Autism just under 4 years ago, the rate was 1 in 150 kids had autism. Then it was 1 in 110 kids. The current rate is believed to be anywhere between 1 in 88 or 1 in 50 kids have some type of Autism Spectrum Disorder. We are your "But for the Grace of God" story. <br />
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We hear what you say about our kids. We hear what you say when we aren't there to listen when you speak about our kids. And it always eventually gets back to us what you say when we aren't there. To your kids, " Be nice to Johnny. He has special needs" in your Florence Nightingale voice yet then you complain that your kids were placed in the inclusive classroom with our kids.<br />
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You complain about what it costs to educate our kids out of one side of your mouth while looking at us with eyes full of pity while rubbing our arm and asking in your most sorrowful voice,"How's Sally doing?". Then you stand up at a Board of Education meeting and ask if (insert extracurricular activity of your choice here) was cut because of what it costs to educate those special needs kids and furthermore, that our kids are holding your kids back academically.<br />
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I'll let you in on a little secret. I'm no saint. I didn't chose to adopt a special needs child. Most of those who have kids with special needs didn't chose this path. It was thrust upon us by some random act of God, genetics or luck of the draw. I know I checked off the smart and perfect child who will never give me a moment's worry. He or she would grow up, go to college, and have a happy, successful and independent life. <br />
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So what does your child really learn by having children like ours in their classrooms? Hopefully, they are learning empathy, compassion and an appreciation for other people's differences. They are learning tolerance and acceptance. Aren't these all things that will serve your kids well when they are adults? Yet you want to take that away from them. I bet you think you are all these things but you're not. Your words and deeds have proved otherwise, yet it's not too late for you to change and be a positive example for your kids. Autism and other developmental and learning disabilities are NOT contagious but bigotry, ignorance and intolerance are very contagious. <br />
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Boy Wonder's Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16438138519046486344noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7021403237012306293.post-75567018856524785602013-03-20T08:15:00.001-04:002013-03-20T08:21:29.624-04:00Glittering Glowing Gregarious Gorgeous Five<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Boy Wonder's Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16438138519046486344noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7021403237012306293.post-32994075218614180602013-03-09T23:33:00.000-04:002013-03-09T23:33:13.763-04:00How Was Your Day?How was your day? You ask your kids, your spouse or significant other (if you have one). You ask a friend or a loved one who you know has something either wonderful or difficult going on. <br />
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I have never hid the fact that we swim in the murky deep end of the autism pool. Boy Wonder is not able to tell me how his day was, good or bad, what he did or what he learned. I can only know from what I observe of his mood, his behaviors and what ever it is he chooses to show me he has learned because the language and ability to communicate at that level is simply not there at this time. For the boy, we were told would never be able to talk; not even able to communicate the want of drink or food or to ask to use the bathroom who can now do all of these things, I do believe it is wholly possible that some day he will be able to tell me about his day.<br />
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And 5 years ago when Boy Wonder was just two years old we started on the never ending toilet training road. We stumbled. We learned how to clean things. Boy Wonder learned that we knew he could do it so if he messed up, he'd be cleaning it up. Consequences, praise, incentives, positive practice, regression and progress we've been through it all. We decided this would be the one fight we'd never give up on. So much of his independence depends on this one life skill. And just when we were thinking when will this skill be attained, it clicked and Boy Wonder started taking himself without prompting on a consistent and regular basis.<br />
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Boy Wonder's Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16438138519046486344noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7021403237012306293.post-26824210441024947582012-12-26T08:39:00.001-04:002012-12-26T08:39:50.429-04:00Unexpected Gift<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/QnkOVD4LAoE" width="480"></iframe><br />
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Because sometimes the unexpected gifts are the things you never planned on but love the most. Boy Wonder's Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16438138519046486344noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7021403237012306293.post-78279726200028396222012-12-21T22:29:00.000-04:002012-12-21T22:31:42.307-04:00#ThisisAutism<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<br />Boy Wonder's Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16438138519046486344noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7021403237012306293.post-83299986707510241432012-12-13T16:24:00.001-04:002012-12-13T16:24:08.512-04:00No More Apologies<span style="font-size: small;">I had to bring Boy Wonder with me when I took the girls to school this morning. As we were walking out of Diva's class, another mom was walking her little girl inside. She had a Dunkin' Donuts bag in her hand. Boy Wonder loves him some munchkins. It was one of his first words. Mr. Eagle Eye can spot a bag or box of munchkins quicker than I don't know what. Boy Wonder spied the Dunkin' Donuts bag in her hand and tried to take it out of her hand and then I said," I'm sorry. He has autism." and it sounded to me like I was apologizing for his autism. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">I can't and won't apologize for his autism. I correct his bad behavior just as I do his sisters' bad behavior but he is who he is. His autism is so deeply embedded in him that there is no separation. There is no line to see who he'd be without his autism. I can not apologize for who Boy Wonder is and then expect people to accept him for who he is. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Because Boy Wonder is a smart, funny, joyful, happy loving brown eyed snuggly boy who happens to have autism. No apologies necessary. </span><br />
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Boy Wonder's Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16438138519046486344noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7021403237012306293.post-93087655233442702012-11-05T13:08:00.001-04:002012-11-05T13:08:22.918-04:00Restore The Shore<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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We are here. Alive and grateful that we only lost power for 36 hours. We have heat, electricity and running water.<br />
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Our friends and loved ones on the Jersey Shore were not so lucky. They lost everything. My BFF, D and her husband are spearheading a donation drive. They are renting at their own expense a very large U-Haul truck. Please help us fill it. <br />
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The people need, diapers, wipes, cleaning supplies, bleach, rubber gloves, toilet paper, paper towels, toothbrushes, toothpaste, feminine hygiene products, soap, rubber boots, warm adult and children's clothing, coats, hats, blankets, etc. Anything you can think of they need.<br />
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We are down but we are never out. Why? Cause we're from Jersey. <br />
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<br />Boy Wonder's Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16438138519046486344noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7021403237012306293.post-37393026557551802622012-10-11T11:45:00.001-04:002012-10-11T11:45:33.647-04:00The Other Two Reasons I Run (Run for My Girls)<div style="text-align: center;">
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Boy Wonder's Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16438138519046486344noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7021403237012306293.post-3709178353381906182012-10-04T07:32:00.000-04:002012-10-04T07:32:57.855-04:00Seven<div style="text-align: center;">
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Happy 7th Birthday Boy Wonder!!</div>
Boy Wonder's Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16438138519046486344noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7021403237012306293.post-82490715213832408722012-09-27T15:48:00.000-04:002012-09-27T15:48:51.224-04:00Joint Attention<div style="text-align: center;">
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One of the best things about parenting small children, ya know other then the whining and your pants being a walking tissue, is seeing the wonder and laughter in their faces when they experience things for the first time and their little faces looking back at you to see if you are seeing and experiencing what they are experiencing. That type of connection with your child is what every parent expects but when you have a child with autism those moments are hard to come by. They are focused inward. You fight your way into their world and try to bring them out to your world. You wait for that connection and in our case we waited years. </div>
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While not a daily occurrence, joint attention does happen more and more with Boy Wonder. We took all of them to the Bronx Zoo on Saturday. They had a Dora and Diego 4-D short film exhibit about a robot butterfly. We were hesitant to take Boy Wonder in. Would he keep the glasses on? Would he vocal stim loudly to the point of annoying other people? Would he just flip out and need to be taken out quickly? We looked inside the theater. It wasn't even a quarter of the way filled. We decided to sit in the front row with Boy Wonder and Big Daddy positioned near the exit. Boy Wonder decided he'd sit on his Daddy's lap. As the lights went down we put the 4-D glasses on him and Dora and Diego sprang out at him and he laughed, his big delicious belly laugh. He watched the butterflies come dancing onto the screen and reached out to touch them and then he looked over at me to see if I was watching and laughing too and when he saw I was laughing, he laughed harder. That connection is all that more meaningful because it's been an uphill battle and we are rewarded with the sweetest victory.</div>
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Boy Wonder's Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16438138519046486344noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7021403237012306293.post-58494478085308375062012-09-21T09:20:00.000-04:002012-09-21T09:20:25.672-04:00Boston The Good The Bad The UglyIt was a gorgeous morning to run. Bright, clear and cool which is just the way I like it but I hadn't slept well the night before because as usual the mind stays on all the damn time. I was thinking about Boy Wonder who has made some great progress lately but who has some old aggressive behaviors crop up. I was thinking about my friend who wasn't there. And always thinking about how did I get here from 19 months ago without having ever really run. <br />
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We find Sassy and Doug and make our way to the start line. Doug and I trash talk cause hey it's what we do. (I'm way better at it though ssshhhh) Sassy is all cute and sassy in her running skirt. We hug Jess and promise to look for her on the course and we are off. We are moving along the four of us. Me cursing, Sassy looking cute, Doug and Luau chatting like tween girls. (Sorry boys lol) At some point Doug tears his calf muscle and pulls over but he makes a comeback. And somewhere around mile 8 or 9 I can't keep up the 9 minute per mile pace. The sight of all the Team UP shirts is starting to get to me. It's an overwhelming sight and yet it's only a very small piece of the enormous pie. Sassy takes off and Luau stays with me cause he's good like that. And Doug comes tearing past us and I know I'm losing my bet to him.<br />
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And they were off to school. My house is empty and quiet for the first time in years. I love them all madly but the peace and quiet were hard earned and are needed. Now if you'll excuse me, I'm going to go jump on the couch and then do my own schoolwork. Boy Wonder's Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16438138519046486344noreply@blogger.com6